In Paul's first letter to the Corinthians, it was necessary for him to reprimand a certain member of the congregation. By extension, he was asking the congregation to also reprimand this individual. But the story doesn't stop there. Along with reprimands and discipline, must come forgiveness. In this letter, Paul is asking for the congregation to extend forgiveness to the one that needed discipline.
Just like with our kids, we can't always be telling others about what they are doing wrong. And we certainly can't refuse to give them another chance when they have sought repentance and changed their ways. Of course, we continue to be vigilant against sin in the church, but the situation is rectified, we must forgive and love the believer.
Is there anyone in your life that you are holding a grudge against when you should be forgiving?